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Etiquette: Key Customs for Visitors

A quick guide to essential Swedish social norms, greetings, punctuality, fika, and the concept of lagom to help you feel at home.

March 22, 2024

Key Swedish Social Norms


Sweden values politeness, personal space, and punctuality. Understanding these basics will enhance your interactions and help you blend in respectfully.


Greetings & Communication Essentials


  • Greetings: A simple "Hej" (Hi) with a handshake (firm, brief) and eye contact is standard for first meetings. First names are used quickly.
  • Conversation: Listen attentively, avoid interrupting, and maintain a moderate voice volume. Swedes appreciate directness but are always polite. Comfortable silences are normal.
  • Language: Most Swedes speak excellent English. Learning basic phrases like "Tack" (Thank you) and "Hej då" (Goodbye) is always appreciated.

Public Conduct & Punctuality


  • Punctuality (Very Important!): Being on time for everything (appointments, social plans, transport) is highly respected. Inform if you'll be late.
  • Queuing: Always queue patiently. Many places use a ticket (nummerlapp) system.
  • Personal Space: Maintain a respectful distance in public and avoid unnecessary physical contact.
  • Noise Levels: Keep conversations low, especially on public transport and in quiet zones.
  • Environment: Dispose of litter properly; recycling is common.

Visiting a Swedish Home: Quick Tips


  • Shoes Off: Always remove your shoes upon entering a home.
  • Host Gift: For a meal invitation, a small gift (flowers, chocolates, a bottle of wine if appropriate) is a nice gesture.
  • Fika: Embrace this social coffee (or tea) and pastry break if invited. It's a cultural cornerstone.
  • "Tack för maten": Say "Thanks for the food" to your host after a home-cooked meal.

Tipping: What to Know


Service charges are usually included. Tipping is not obligatory but appreciated for good service.

  • Restaurants/Cafes: Rounding up the bill or 5-10% for good service is common but optional.
  • Taxis: Rounding up is fine.
  • Bars/Hotels: Generally not expected unless service is exceptional.

Understanding 'Lagom' & 'Allemansrätten'


  • Lagom: "Not too much, not too little – just right." This philosophy of balance and moderation permeates Swedish life. Avoid extremes and ostentation.
  • Allemansrätten (Freedom to Roam): You can access most land for recreation, but always with responsibility: "Do not disturb, do not destroy." Respect nature and private property.

Key Takeaway

Politeness, punctuality, respect for personal space, and embracing "lagom" will make your interactions in Sweden smooth and enjoyable. When in doubt, observing locals is a good guide.

Enjoy your visit and the Swedish way of life! 🇸🇪